^^^^^^
Phil you're better than I am.
Having worked in the tyre industry since 1975 I've always been amazed at how far people will drive on a flat tyre without knowing it.
But, having said that, back in the late 70's I had a rear tyre go flat on my Renault 12 on the highway west towards Toowoomba.
It was fully flat (but not destroyed) before I noticed any instability in the car. So I became a little more tolerant of drivers who wrecked their tyres this way.
On the front, it should be immediately obvious. On the rear, less so, especially on a front wheel drive car on a straight road.
All that aside, it has been my observation that the worst damage is done by slow leaks which, due to the benefits of tubeless tyres, can sometimes take a few days to lose 20 psi. So a car gets driven, often for long distances in hot conditions with low pressure. This allows extreme heat build up and eventually the cords (made of polyester) simply melt, resulting in an instantaneous blow out with the resultant loss of control.
So, while I am not a big fan of TPMS myself, I can see the benefits of the system.